Into A New Year

We close another year and begin what has been labeled as the year 2025. Resolutions will be made and may last to February. We will promise to lose weight and be a “better” person. All of us start with strong resolve, but it almost always seems to fade.

Many years ago, I gave up on making the New Year resolution. It seemed an exercise in futility, because shortly after they failed (as they always did), the feeling of regret and disappointment took over the remainder of the year. Change can be so stressful, difficult, and nearly impossible. Why is this?

The American Heritage Dictionary defines the word, “institution”, as a custom, practice, or behavioral pattern of importance in the life of a community or society.

Make note of the term, “behavioral pattern.” Society has institutionalized the people to fall into a certain behavior pattern. From birth, people are conditioned to act a certain way. They let this institution mindset bleed into every aspect of life, and it makes a person resistant to change. We are conditioned to conform and set ourselves into a pattern or cycle that is extremely difficult to break. Have you learned to conform and just accept things in your life as they are? Do you find yourself wanting to break out and change everything but feel trapped or ill equipped to accomplish it?

Resolutions to change should not be made at the beginning of a new year. These should be made every day. Make small steps to break free from destructive cycles every day of your life, slowly chip away at the wall of the prison that has you trapped. Over time, you can begin to drop the bad and replace it with the good, getting one step closer to reaching the higher morality.

I have decided to change my cycle and make a resolution for 2025. I know that I just contradicted myself, but for me this is a break from my usual cycle of refusing to make resolutions. Flawed logic? Wouldn’t be my first time. I am going to spend my 2025 year focused on pushing to break from the institutions that trap humanity and control its way of life.

I hope you continue to follow me on this journey. My hope is that you will continue to stretch your mind, question everything, and be a force of change. I am not asking you to agree with everything I write, but I am asking you to a least listen and consider; constantly challenge and explore all options.

That is how we grow. That is how we change.

This is man’s search for meaning.

Merry Christmas!!

I hope that everyone is having a wonderful Holiday season. This time of year is not about unwrapping gifts and a mad rush to after Christmas sales. It is about family and taking these days to reflect and be thankful for those people who we travel through life with us. The bond of family and friendship can be strong, and each of us needs to continue to strengthen and build those relationships. No person can walk this path alone.

We also celebrate our relationship with God during this time and reflect on what He has blessed in our lives. He has given us a powerful free will, the ability to reason and think, to value life, and the gift of salvation from a world that humanity has corrupted.

We also have been given hope.

Cherish these days with your family. Even if they are far away, reach out and foster the love and strengthen that relationship. Do not become lost in the shuffle of daily life, trying to keep your head above the water or fly under the radar, hiding from the chaos around us.

As it has been said, “there is strength in numbers.” As we travel into this New Year, hold fast to your convictions and keep your friend and your family close to heart. Lean on them and be a grounded post for them to lean on also.

Let’s make 2025 a year of change and family values. Be the insurrection!

Misinformation Train

Daily, individuals are bombarded by all kinds of information about people, events, and theories. Currently in the news, there is talk of car-sized drones above New Jersey, a murder/assassination of a healthcare CEO, and the constant fear of what could potentially be called Word War Three. These are just a few examples. This is the age of unlimited communication with the internet and dozens of news stations bombarding us with both useful and, more often, useless information.

How many really care how Snoop Dog cooks his bacon?

Trying to sift through all the pointless articles to find real news can be a challenge. Even when we find “legitimate” news, we are left with conflicting or bias explanations, distorting the facts. The truth is always elusive. CNN focuses on attacking the conservative minded people while Fox News bashes the liberal audiences. It is a media war that continues to rage and become more volatile on a daily basis.

Dispelling misinformation can be a nearly impossible task. Humanity needs to accept that there are always agendas being played out, conspiracies in the works, brutal fights for power and really bad boxing matches on Netflix. Truth is the hardest thing to see through the thick fog of misinformation. Yet it is there!

One must ask themselves, what is good? What is positive? What benefits humanity the greatest?

There are so many distractions that pull us from the truth. Unfortunately, I am not even sure Occam’s razor can cut away all of the garbage that encloses the truth. So why is it so hidden? Humanity wants to shield itself from accountability and conviction. Hide the truth, then make your own morals that benefits you, the individual, not humanity as a whole.

Wokeness thrives on hiding and distorting the truth in order to move its own agenda of denying accountability. Even if you take God out of the equation (theoretically), humanity cannot survive without a moral structure. For example, there are people who want pedophilia to be a “sexual orientation”. Unbelievable. This act is detrimental to children and emotionally damages them for the remainder of their lives. Nobody would benefit from this behavior if it was accepted. Instead, it drives humanity down a road of self-destruction.

I understand this is an extreme and disturbing example, but the same case is truth for rape, murder, enslavement, theft, genocide, etc. These acts push society closer to chaos and has no benefits to humanity as a whole. Within the philosophical ideal of utilitarianism, John Stuart Mill puts forward the “Greatest Happiness Principle.” In this, actions are “right” in proportion as they tend to promote happiness and “wrong” as they tend to produce the reverse of happiness.

This “happiness” is not based on the individual, but rather on humanity. Moral actions will benefit all people while immoral actions are the ones that hurt people, even if the person or persons acting benefit from it.

Our goal should be to strive to reach the higher “good” for the human race as a whole. The less suffering, the more we will find happiness in living. The “anything goes” attitude will lead to the destruction of civilized society. Cut through the garbage that the misinformation train dumps on your doorstep.

Be the insurrection.

Confronting the Fears

What is your greatest fear? All of us, even the bravest of persons, have fears we face and struggle against frequently in life. Fear is a natural emotion that humans experience, especially fear of the unknown. The future can always be unnerving as we plan and adjust our lives in the attempt to have a better outcome. If only there was a magic ball that we could gaze into and see the events and outcomes that are awaiting us.

How different would life be in the here and now if a person knew the future. If a person knew what was ahead and it was something horrible, would they not try to make changes to gain a better the outcome? Yet, to change the outcome and alter the future, what you knew would become invalid…. a philosophical paradox. Alas, could it be true that everything is preset and no matter what a person would do, the outcome would be the same….

Sorry, I am sure your brain hurts now. I know mine does when I flip this question over and over in my mind.

I feel that fear of the “unknown” is essentially the greatest fear a person can experience. We toil and struggle with the uncertainty of our future as we see wars, violence, divided politics, lawlessness, inflation, hostages, human trafficking, and on and on. Turn on the nightly news and there is always something new going on that makes the future look dim and sometimes hopeless. Does humanity have a chance to survive in this treacherous storm that engulfs its existence?

Our world has abandoned its morality and embraced a reckless philosophy devoid of basic principles and structure. It has let itself dive into an environment of hate, depression, hedonism, and the lack of any accountability. Morality cannot exist without accountability, otherwise we are in chaos, and, unfortunately, this world is churning in this chaos now more than ever.

So here we find ourselves with a bleak future as we let the principalities of this world rule our lives, suppressing our ability to embrace higher principles that supersede humankind.

You should be afraid of the future.

Ignoring this chaos or hiding in a hole will only end in disaster. Being brave does not mean that you are not afraid. It means you face the challenge in spite of the fear. It will take many of us to rise up and stand for what is good and trust that we can in a way “change the future.” It begins with an insurrection against the immorality that the world continues to worship.

What will you do? Embrace the fear or let the fear destroy you?

Isn’t It Time?

Too often, we wait on the currents of life to push us down the river. Occasionally, we dip our paddles in the water to make a slight change of direction, but eventually, we fall back into the original current. What if we are being led to a plummeting waterfall?

Is it fear? Is it apathy? Laziness?

How do we not see the drop-off ahead of us?

Many take no effort to guide their course. We don’t challenge the river in order to find a better path towards a fulfilled life, instead we hope the river will lead us to the ideal life. Unfortunately, letting the world determine your morals and ethics leads to a waterfall where we are crushed by the rocks below. It is an emanate disaster.

It is very easy to rely on the current to move you along, and it is also easy to sit back and do nothing to control it. Living a good and moral life is not an easy path to travel. It is going to take a lot of paddling and steering to stay on that current. It does require choices made and actions taken. A person cannot hope to quickly find this higher moral stream and glide down it in their sunglasses and pina colada in hand, forgetting their worries. One must constantly be striving to find the “right” way to live; a moral path that can bring us happiness, hope and satisfaction. It is not a path easily attained.

The first step is to break away from the world’s mindset. Morality is not a democracy! We cannot let a “majority rules” determine our ethics. There are principles that supersede the faulty, corrupt nature of human beings. learn to read the waters and make the adjustments to bring yourself in line. Humans are unique in that we have a very assertive conscience unlike other living creatures and have an inherent knowledge that there is right and wrong. We may not know exactly what is right and wrong, but we know that these measures exist. Somewhere deep inside everyone there is a moral compass.

It is time to take action! Dig the compass out of your pocket and put those paddles in the water. Take charge and fight the current.

Voting Power

Ah, yes, another presidential election year. Tensions run high, mud slinging continues, and we wait in long lines to cast our ballot.

I am not blogging to tell you who to vote for in this intense election year. Remember,  we will never have a perfect candidate in the running, so we must choose our votes carefully to align with the candidates who uphold the most important issues we feel will benefit our values. Focus your moral compass towards those who most closely stand for what is good and morally right.

The politicians can not and will not repair our corrupted and divided society. We as people are the ones who achieve at repairing our society. We do this by holding firm in our convictions and beliefs. There is too much compromising, leading to resentment, which progresses to hatred. In the end, we live in misery.

Let me close with a line from a powerful song first recorded in 1975:

Wake up, everybody, no more sleepin’ in bed. No more backward thinkin’, time for thinkin’ ahead.

Vote as your convictions lead you to vote. Learn from the past and the mistakes, but focus on our future. Don’t lose this chance!

(Wake Up Everybody, originally recorded by  Harokd Melvin and his Blue Notes, 1975)

It is a Fragile Existence

Take a minute and think about this concept. As a person, you are one living being among billions, standing on a spinning rock, dependent on gravity created by this force in order to hold you on our giant sphere. What is more, you are in the vastness of infinite space depending on the sun to keep you at a proper distance where a slight diviation could end it all.

When I think about this, it overwhelms me and reminds me that we constantly take for granted how fragile this life can be. We may feel very small and insignificant when we look at a bigger picture like this, but I am left in awe of it. We are fortunate beings in that we can recognize the vastness and fragility that our lives have. My cat, Simon, only recognizes what is immediately around  him and is more concerned about getting his dinner, which, according to him, is always late, than he is about the consistent orbit of the earth.

Look to this existence as a blessing and a gift. We are only here a short time in the grand scheme of this universe.  We should be inspired by this truth and strive to live our best life, a morally good life. You may not believe in something beyond this existence, but I do. I will not apologize nor deny that I believe there is a true God who desires us to make morally good choices and offers forgiveness when we fall short.

I want to live within goodness and happiness and not evil, corruption and oppression. We must all strive to strengthen this fragile existence and make this one life count for something. Deceit is our most dangerous enemy in that immorality constantly costumes itself to appear as good and moral. We face the deception of freedom, democracy, science, and hedonism that this world fronts for us. Avoid falling into these traps and seek what is good.

Solving the Cube

As a teenager in the 80s, there were so many memorable items that came out to entertain us. We worked out to Jane Fonda and Richard Simmons via VHS, the CD player slowly took over vinyls, high top sneakers, MTV, and leg warmers, to name a few.

We were also introduced to a mental torture device- the Rubik’s Cube. How many hours were wasted trying to line up colors on a block? More than I care to admit.

Solving this puzzle is like trying to make sense out of life. It is not impossible, but it can be difficult. People approach solving a Rubiks many different ways. This is just like how we approach life’s meaning differently.

Some people will analyze and make careful turns, spending more time thinking than acting. Others will constantly spin the sides, hoping that they will solve it by dumb luck or by accident. Of course, there are people who will give up and say it is impossible. Deception also takes a role. There are those who will peal off the stickers and replace them to make a completed cube, attempting to impress those around them.

You can take all of these methods and apply them to how people approach morality. Do we sit back and analyze, rarely acting? Jump on the bandwagon of the latest idea and hope that we will find the answer? Or, worst of all, do we peel the stickers and shape morality to fit ourselves?

It takes a steady balance of insight and action to solve this puzzle and living the moral life.

I challenge you not to ebb and flow with the times,  nor give up due to it feeling like a “hopeless” cause. Focus on what is good and right, thinking and acting that way. Don’t peel the stickers to shape something that fits you. It is a dangerous path to take, one that will do more harm than good. 

Find your center and align your blocks around that.  It is not impossible to solve the cube, just as it is not impossible to solve moral living.

“The most important human endeavor is the striving for morality in our actions.” – Albert Einstein

Who Will You Serve?

Bob Dylan wrote a great song talking about how we must serve somebody. No matter how we slice it, we are serving something or some principle. True freedom is only an illusion. Yet we are told we are “free” by the principalities that we are ironically serving. We are free to make our own choices but will gain favor or suffer consequences based on the action that we choose. This is not true freedom. We are bound by human law.

Follow the rules and you are fine. Disobey and you will regret it.

We are not prisoners in the physical sense, though if you break enough rules, you may become one. It is our minds that are imprisoned. We are being conditioned by the “rule makers” to think a certain way and behave according to their wishes. They say laws are made to protect us, but I beg to differ. Many laws are designed to control our behavior, keeping us in check. There are many who grab political power, not for the betterment of the citizens, but to influence and control. They desire to move their agendas.

So, what is the solution? How do we live?

Morality must always be the higher authority. Do not compromise what is good and right when mankind tells us to behave in a contradictory way. The woke movement wants us to sideline our principles and accept a loose morality that lacks conviction and accountability. Walking the moral path will bring a higher joy than living a morally fluid life.  

Who will you serve? Will you submit to the laws of mankind, or will you cast it aside and follow the higher principles that God has established for humanity. As citizens of a nation, it is our job to hold our leaders and lawmakers to this higher morality. When they fail, we need to take action. Use your voice. Do not be afraid to stand, cross the line and say, “I will not compromise.” I will serve what is good and right!

Will you?

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Valor in the Face of Despair

Today, the nation remembers the victims and honors the heroes of 9/11. It is a defining day in our history as we rose up and showed the world we would not back down. I honor those first responders, the passengers that fought back and mourn those who were lost. It is a humbling day.

I wanted to take a moment and reflect on something else about this day. This country experienced something that many other countries have gone through and continue to endure in our modern age.

As a country, we have been very fortunate to avoid conflict on our soil. We rest safe and secure and watch from a distance as other nations resist an internal or external enemy. Today marks when we became vulnerable instead of safe. American heroism and sacrifice won the day for us. Valor prevailed.

We must remain ever vigilant for enemies, both foreign and domestic. Currently, China, Russia, Iran, and North Korea all pose an external threat to our nation today. Unfortunately, there is a more dangerous enemy lurking in our shadows. Hate, immorality, and division threaten to cripple us. Remember, it is the responsibility of the people to rise against these powerful forces that threaten to unravel us. Do not rely on our nation’s leaders as they can easily distract us from truth and potentially, be part of the problem. No matter who you vote for in November, we must rise up against those immoralities that eat away at our foundation. Stop hiding in the shadows, thinking you are safe! Step out and let your voice be heard.

Neither Democrat nor Republican will be able to stop the decay of morality and ethical values. We must be the ones, like the heroic first responders on September 11th, to charge into the crumbling towers to rescue our endangered values. Fight for what is right and good!

For those who were lost that fateful day, we remember you. Always.